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Did counseling help at all last time? If so, maybe you could point that out as encouragement to try again. Unfortunately, as others have said, it does require two people to fix things. If he really r… (View Post)

Please tell me that you didn't just try to defend you maturity by citing fictional television characters as empirical evidence? Oh, the irony. (View Post)

Of course you don't want to postpone or go to counseling, but that doesn't mean they wouldn't be good for you. Sure this might be a rough patch, but you're going to hit more roug… (View Post)

Sorry, but I agree with Tarpon that this is not normal. Even if the fighting turns out to be a result of temporary stress, think about what would happen if it's not. You don't want to marry… (View Post)

Since it's a very traditional protocol, I do think it's a bit of an overreaction. If they referred to you as Mrs.HisLastName when they spoke to you (also historical tradition), I would sugg… (View Post)