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WTF? 4 years of almost no sex. And how on earth did he get to "you ruined his life?!" It really sounds like it's time to move on. Yes, you are completely justified. But you don't… (View Post)

I can't do too much in the way of personalizing, because I just have a desk. And I have enough trouble trying to fit my computer and monitors on top! The only personal things I have on my desk a… (View Post)

This. All of this. Especially the bolded. This sounds a bit like my marriage. XH would get irritated about some of the weirdest little things, and I felt terrible about myself a lot of the time. We … (View Post)

Pick up some of your pre-wedding-planning hobbies. Or find a new one. What part of India are you headed to? Have you been before? Maybe you can add a bit of extra time and plan to go somewhere or see… (View Post)

Remember that post last week about obvious stuff that you didn't realize right away? I've had a copy of N0S4A2 on my Kindle to-read list for years (still haven't read it), and I'd… (View Post)