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HE HURT HER! And he refuses to apologize for PHYSICALLY HURTING HER! I'm sure we all understand that she loves him, and that it's hard to leave, but this is a common reaction in an abusive… (View Post)

I haven't read enough Outlander to reach the Minister's Cat scene(s), but can I still play? The minister's cat read Brave New World. (View Post)

Nooooo. You get out. Plain and simple. Hurting you is NOT okay, and his reaction is that much worse. Protect yourself. YOU are more important than your marriage. Please. Find a trusted friend or rel… (View Post)

If he's refusing to go to counseling and becoming physically aggressive, I don't think there's much you can (or should) do. You can't fix him; he has to fix himself. You may be a… (View Post)

This. A counselor can help you work through these feelings and move on, and she can help you learn more about yourself so that you can recognize and address your attraction to this kind of guy in th… (View Post)