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I wouldn't blame you for feeling weird. You're allowed to feel however you feel about the situation. Obviously she's never going to be in a "mom" role to you, so I would just… (View Post)

Are you moving in with him, or getting your own place? If you're going straight from being long distance to living together, I can see that being a pretty challenging transition for anyone. Woul… (View Post)

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Trying to conceive (and pregnancy) are so much more stressful and emotional than our society seems to think. I'm wishing you the best, and hope … (View Post)

This. And would your religion approve of a man who doesn't spend time with his wife and children? Who doesn't have to be any kind of a father? Please don't let your kids learn that th… (View Post)

It's tough, but I think from what you've described, I wouldn't try to be involved with the kids. She sounds like she's not mature enough to pull it off without using it as bait ag… (View Post)