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I don't think anyone here was bullying you - you came here looking for advice and people here are giving you honest answers. If you were hoping for people to blow smoke up your ass, that's … (View Post)

Sorry, I should have mentioned the sarcasm....had to post and run yesterday ;) But yea, what you and everyone else has said....a ring on the finger does not magically change people no matter how much… (View Post)

Well, see, I think most people think this way going into marriage - 'once we're married, things will change.'. Unfortunately, that's not the case most of the time...the fact that … (View Post)

And no, this is not normal behavior from a spouse. Whenever my H and I have an arguement, we work it out like normal civilized adults. And by normal, I mean not smashing things and punching holes in … (View Post)

Ummm...you do realize that just because he hasn't hit you (yet), doesn't mean that his behavior isn't abusive. I would be listening to your counselor - there are many MANY red flags in… (View Post)