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You'd be wise to make it clear as of right now that the Hotel Bridejl is closed. Make it doubly clear that you will not be accepting any new roommies. And say it in such a way that it's dri… (View Post)

The cousin also sounds suspect to me. He's basically telling you there's no chance for a relationship, so my guess is he wants no-strings attached sex with you, while he claims you "ca… (View Post)

Stop enabling her. THat's the bottom line. Let her crash and burn and figure it out for herself. (View Post)

Nope; you know precisely what to do: End the relationship with your FI and end contact with his cousin and the sooner the better. You need to stay away from dating for a good year after this; you�… (View Post)

I will bet that what's happening is a residual issue that's stemming from the miscarriage. I suggest a sex therapist and a regular counselor for him --- he most likely needs some kind of gr… (View Post)