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Okay - I'm going to respond as someone with a serious chronic health condition. I'm also going through chemotherapy and am at a hospital, doctor or test at least twice a week. I am not a bu… (View Post)

Well, I'm going to take a slightly different view - but I am more or less on board with the other posters above. First off, good on you cunger1 for taking care of your father in law. I think it … (View Post)

Just a thought - but in thinking about the path of least resistance, you kind of have a simple solution at the moment. MIL, right now, is actually too overweight and disabled to live at your house. Y… (View Post)

You are waaaaaay too involved with your parents and their lives. He doesn't even really want to leave her the 401K if he dies first. My mom called me with this lovely bit of information while I … (View Post)

Those are your words. Your exact words. I'm not sure where I didn't read properly. You're telling her in one paragraph that your God (yes, your God, open your mind a little) only says… (View Post)