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I don't know if this would immediately be a deal breaker, but it would be pretty damn close and I could see it eventually leading to us splitting up. The fact that he did this WITHOUT talking to… (View Post)

Yeah, I'd talk to him about it ahead of time. Honestly- he needs to be called out. It doesn't have to be mean or anything, but yeah, I'd ask why I wasn't invited. These are YOUR f… (View Post)

All I can say, as you already know, is don't throw that ultimatum down unless you really mean it. If you throw it out and it doesn't work, if you don'tleave, well... then you've s… (View Post)

I don't disagree w/ your stance overall. BUT having known a few truly addicted chain smokers, I have to kind of LOL at this. You can say "my personal opinion" but for people where it&… (View Post)

You don't. You talk to your DH about this and if there are issues in your marriage, start working on them. This isn't something you just ignore and pretend didn't happen. He was corres… (View Post)