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All of this. And here's the thing about boundaries - it's actually not on your mom to follow boundaries. It's on you to set them and not back down. YOU decide she can (let's say)… (View Post)

Oh, come on now. Didn't you know babies make EVERYTHING better? If dating a loser doesn't change him, well then - you marry him. But if THAT doesn't work and he's still a loser, … (View Post)

This can't be real. I mean... come ON. You knew he had issues, but then not only dated him but MARRIED HIM? And you've been together for 8 years and now for some reason it's a serious … (View Post)

This may be off base, but I'll get to why I'm asking this in a moment. In the big picture - how often do you all go to see his family? When it comes to events that both families celebrate, … (View Post)

Thanks for replying. Your first paragraph makes more sense. And I still say "don't over explain". They ask to come visit, just say "We'll let you know when it's a good t… (View Post)