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I'll say this, then. If you want a chance at working things out with her, my advice is to give her space. Send a card, perhaps. But past that, I'd back off and respect her wishes and give … (View Post)

Stay strong. Realize that saying "no" after years of saying yes is going to be hard. But yo ucan do it. You NEED to do it. (View Post)

Weird. really, really weird. You need to start living in the now. not the past. Really. They weren't there. Move on. And while I'm sure your wedding was a blast, really examine why it'… (View Post)

A few thoughts: Imagine my chagrin when I come to find out that DH's sister who has been engaged for four years decides to get married THREE WEEKS before us as soon as she heard our wedding date… (View Post)

Oh, and let's not forget: He has a very noble and respectable job, great pay and benefits, already owns a house, And the new guy is RICH!!!!! So... this is all totes cool. As long as your cheat… (View Post)