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Is this about drugs or about who she lives with? Because what the real issue is plays a role in my answer.. If it's drugs (which you don't mention until almost the end of your post), then t… (View Post)

While I would have been annoyed, a huge life lesson -NEVER try to argue w/ a drunk person. Never. It's pointless. (View Post)

Illumine- I appreciate what you wrote and it's food for thought. Thank you for your perspective. The ONLY thing I'm going to nitpick - yes, I want time away from my son sometimes. But, that… (View Post)

And right now I'm applauding your DH for saying "no" to you and putting his child first. (View Post)

My point is- if you want to be angry at her for not being a better mother, then be angry at HER. There are a LOT of shitty parents out there and I too don't get it. BUT - DON'T TAKE IT OUT … (View Post)