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Ah, yes. That all makes sense. But... while you can feel for her, she needs to watch herself. Her comments are really pushing up against a line here that I wouldn't be comfortable with. You can … (View Post)

Oh, and to add, as your DH doesn't notice and/or says "no" - good. Because if he's not buying into it, he's not giving her the reaction she wants. Also, when she makes commen… (View Post)

This is weird and kind of pushes this into "over the top" mode. Instead of "talking about it" with her - which could just be uncomfortable - I might try to find ways to make a fe… (View Post)

At some point you need to let it go. If you can't call them or see them in person, then stop trying to "confront" them online. A LOT is lost through the written word, especially in ang… (View Post)

To follow on Tofu - how much does your DH tell his family? Because while he brought on some of the issues from his past, he could be talking to his family about it and painting himself in an entirely… (View Post)