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JFC. Thank you. Especially if you don't know the person well. This is all in the same vein of "It's just a joke. Lighten up!". Why is it o.k for the "joke teller" to up… (View Post)

It's been a month. A MONTH. You both need to give it more time. I moved to another city many years ago- just DH and I. I like adventure, I like new things, etc, but i was terribly homesick for a… (View Post)

No,you don't need to do the same. And yes, I think you're reading too much into it. I would assume she does this because it's important to her. I don't see why she should NOT do i… (View Post)

At some point you and (probably more importantly) your DH are going to have to let her be upset and let her say you're heartless. And when you get to this point, your DH needs to stand firm &quo… (View Post)

O.k. - I'm going to look at the two separate issues here. 1- The smoking. I hate to be trite, but you married a smoker. To a degree, I agree with him. You're trying to change him. And reall… (View Post)