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Well, a part of the issue here is that your DH would rather appease her than you. He'll tell YOU that you're overreacting, but he's too "non-confrontational" to tell his sist… (View Post)

OMG. So, when she got married, did she still spend all her holidays w/ HER family or did she start doingthings w/ her DH? She really seems to think thanksgiving should be the 3 of them. She' s a… (View Post)

If you're not in love w/ your DH and don't want to be married, then leave your DH. But yeah... do NOT go running to this guy. You need a LOT of time alone. A lot. And really - maybe I'… (View Post)

If your DH won't do it, then yes, do it. Don't get into over explanation, though. Leave it simple. "I appreciate that you don't want to host the holiday's again. However, as … (View Post)

I think to what Illumine said - think of people and situations in your life that may provide good examples for your DH. Definitely use work if that's applicable. Think of other people in your li… (View Post)