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A couple additional thoughts: It seems that your DH is coming around. Good. But if he ever throws out this "our policy is never turn our backs on family" again, you need to remind him that … (View Post)

Yeah, I don't agree with your mom either. Yes, try at the START. But if you routinely have your efforts thrown in your face, there IS a point where you just need to stop. There's a point wh… (View Post)

She sounds very immature. My advice is to just distance yourselves and give her time to figure her shit out. While she was a pill around your wedding, I would suggest not holding onto that forever. I… (View Post)

Please remember - it's an INVITATION, not a subpoena. If you can't go, it's really not that big of a deal! Figure out which shower you'd rather go to/ works out better for you and… (View Post)

The one thing I will say about SIL (throwing her a SMALL bone) - looking at it from her perspective, you missed their wedding, you missed the baby shower, and then you didn't come to see the new… (View Post)