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To come back to this - really THINK about what your relationship has been like w/ your dad and how disappointed you've been. he's a grandfather now - and what does that do? Um, nothing. HE … (View Post)

My advice? Get your DH to counseling. I'm going to take what you've said in your updates at face value. My ILs aren't hoarders, but they DO keep stuff too long. It's all in closet… (View Post)

This is where I'm at. On all levels. And yeah, this is so, so, so not about $60. Either he was hiding something else OR the issue isn't about the money as much as it is about HIM perhaps h… (View Post)

This. I really think that most people who come here and talk about wanting their kids to have a relationship w/ their grandparents - no matter how screwy the situation - it's w/ some ideal in t… (View Post)

As she lives with you, this is clearly has a huge impact on her. Instead of talking about "Yay for us!!!!!", why not talk to her and acknowledge how this will affect her? And how WILL it af… (View Post)