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You said it yourself, but you can't have kids because of your parents/ their health. And trust me... YOU having kids will not magically make your dad decide to improve his health. It won't.… (View Post)

To the first sentence - are you sure about that? He sounds pretty immature. I'd be questioning the "why" behind why he wants to marry you. To the second sentence (and really, your ent… (View Post)

Really? You've seen her 3 times and now your "estranged" and you don't know what she likes anymore? You make it sound like this is over the course of 10 years. Not ONE year. I get… (View Post)

I feel that there is a LOT missing. Anniversary aside for a moment- what is the "norm" for Christmas? On his side and also on yours? Is what you did this past year different than what you&#… (View Post)

ALL of this. You aren't jerks. They are planning this weekend, not you. It's not your responsibility. And I agree - if she would just out and out ASK if a couple of them could stay with yo… (View Post)