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You can't be their savior. You go and get them? They will call you EVERY.SINGLE.TIME they need a ride. I'd tell them "Please call Uber. Get home safely." and leave it at that. (View Post)

Trying to force a square peg (this relationship) into a round hole isn't going to magically make things better. He's a man child, through and through. You are NOT his mother and I feel that… (View Post)

Well, sorry, but your DH sounds like a bit of an ass. I really loathe holding "I pay the bills" over anyone's head. He doesn't really sound like a team player. Especially if he re… (View Post)

The bolded is what you need to get your wife to understand. This is partially on your wife. Her mom can't guilt her if your wife doesn't LET her. As for telling them, honestly, I woudl NOT… (View Post)

All of this. And good lord, yes to the bolded. ALL of your choices in this sound so young and immature. But yet you've been married before, have 2 kids, and... this is how you live your life? M… (View Post)