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Ok. - look, it's not his family's fault that your family doesn't live nearby. If you CAN and your DH WANTS to see his family a week before (or whenever works for the 2 of you), then do… (View Post)

A lot of good advice. My ultimate take - I agree, be business like w/ a reply to her email. She wants drama, she wants an argument. Don't give it to her. BUT as I say that, I really think that y… (View Post)

I'm going to say "good luck". I want to believe what you say about your DH. I really do. But these people have shown over and over and OVER their true colors. There HAS to come a point… (View Post)

Totally agree. I know you won't do it, OP. You'll quit, you'll move and you'll continue to be miserable. You have a choice here. You can change your life. This isn't a man w… (View Post)

You do realize that for an ultimatum to work, YOU have to follow through with it. right? You can't throw it out there then when he picks them instead of you, you say "oh - o.k., I'll … (View Post)