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Yea. Slow your roll. You haven't known him all that long and to have "ups and downs" so early isn't a great sign. (View Post)

I think spending ONE Christmas out of four w/ his dad isn't asking too much on your boyfriends part. I can't fault him for that. However, the ENTIRE break w/ NO time in your hometown? I thi… (View Post)

Well, JFC. How are we supposed to know this if you don't TELL us? This is an entirely different situation and on this note... A: they sound like assholes. And B: your DH needs to do more to sta… (View Post)

TBH, yes, you are being petty. His family is different than yours. Yes, yours sounds very warm and welcoming, and that's wonderful. But clearly that's not how his family is. This doesn'… (View Post)

Geez. I'm sorry she's acting like that towards you. Knowing all that, though, my advice stands. Give her the space she wants. It might lead to there really being NO relationship. OR, over t… (View Post)