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Is this a cultural thing? They've been living with YOU for 14 years and before that, they lived w/ their other child. I can't imagine that it was initially out of being too old to live alon… (View Post)

You've had no contact w/ your father for 20 years but yet you know he's sick and that you have a niece who looks just like you. how do you know these things?  (View Post)

Look- don't feel bad for not wanting to be alone orfeeling you'll miss him. There ARE things you like - this is all normal. And while there is a tone of "leave him", that doesn�… (View Post)

THis might be where I start, actually. "So, DH, what is the anniversary of ..." and then start listing family and friends. I'd expect that his answer will probably be a lot of "U… (View Post)

If your friend had to avoid EVERY anniversary (what about birthdays? What if this was his birthday? Would he have the same hissy fit?) of everyone she knows, she'd be severly limited in her choi… (View Post)