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Have you talked, REALLY talked w/ your parents about what happened 7 years ago? You say that your mom claims you left. I think you need to tell them that their lack of taking responsibility with what… (View Post)

I'd approach it from a "I realize this happened a long time ago and I realize that at the time, you were trying to protect me. However, we've never really talked about what happened w… (View Post)

I totally understand why you want to respond. But you said it - you know it won't change anything. And it will only add fuel to HER fire. It's hard, but don't respond. Just don't … (View Post)

No, you aren't wrong. It's one thing if you really do have the free time and can help. But rearrange schedules or even take time off? HELL no. That's called enabling her. Do NOT fall i… (View Post)

Yeah, well, family also doesn't take advantage of each other either. So... there's that. And a lot of whatever "discussion" is going on w/ MIL on this needs to stop. You all don&… (View Post)