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Ditto all of this. I feel really sorry for this kid. his mother doesn't want him, you don't want him. Kudos to his dad for sticking up for his child and his relationship with his child. To… (View Post)

She's not going to get it. She's just not. She incapable of putting herself in someone else's shoes. I think she's utterly incapable of feeling any degree of empathy for other pe… (View Post)

ALL of this. You really need to stop listening to both of your mothers. Today. Their "messages" don't matter. You and your DH need to figure out what works for the TWO OF YOU and that… (View Post)

I... I really can't say much after what Disney wrote. everything she said is SPOT ON. And what's important to understand - there are many, many, many men out there who have character. MANY.… (View Post)

Oh, and to add. Do you want to have kids? Because if you do - be VERY aware that if you do, things still WILL.NOT.CHANGE. You will be taking care of a child all by yourself while ALSO still waiting o… (View Post)