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I would start by making a list of everything that needs to be done -daily and weekly. Show this to him. Seeing it all written down might have a bit of an impact. Then - ask him which ones he would li… (View Post)

I get it that you don't want to ruin your relationship w/ your ILs, but for the fact there are already issues there and then add on to it - they want their drug and alcohol addicted daughter who… (View Post)

I'm not saying this to jump on you, but whenever I read "that's just how I am", I see it as a cop out. It's easier to hide behind that than to actually be different and make … (View Post)

Um. Dude. Relax. It's a random memory. We all have them. I've had people recount memories that involved ME and I have no clue. People remember odd things/ connections sometimes. it happens.… (View Post)

I'm not saying this is what's going on with you, but to be honest - I think if more people were honest with themselves, more people would actaully say "i dont want kids". It'… (View Post)