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So, two things. I agree- divorcing him may mean you're alone in the interim, but it opens up a world of possibilities. Staying married ENSURES that you'll be alone and disrespected by his f… (View Post)

Have you actually TALKED to your DH about this? I don't get any impression from what you wrote that you have. Why wasn't this discussed before you got married? Look - here's a harsh re… (View Post)

In the end this is about your DH. Not his parents. It’s not exactly fair to have DH lose his family because of me, It's not because of you. It's because of them. And if your DH doesn't… (View Post)

Ha. I didn't think of it this way. Good point. WE'RE actually here trying to talk to her. Her DH can't even do that. But WE'RE the rude ones... lol. I also really don't unde… (View Post)

You seemed to be handling the situation perfectly fine yourself. You needed your DH to jump in too? Is this some chivalry thing you want? Your MAN to defend you against another big bad MAN? I don… (View Post)