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I can't believe some of the advice here is to actually stop spending time w/ both families. Good grief people. She and her DH can be their own family/unit but also still spend time w/ peopel who… (View Post)

GilliC said: Or if you don't want to stay friends, be brutally honest. :) (View Post)

Oh, and one last piece of advice - if you REALLY want separation from her expectations.... MOVE. Really, MOVE. Find a place you and DH can afford and get out of their house.  (View Post)

Oh hell. Gotta go w/ MUD. This is just too much. (View Post)

Dude. He sounds very immature. I often hate the quick jumps to "dump him", but in this case... I would. He's probably not over her, but even if he is - for him to really not have a CLU… (View Post)