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Ok, great, he didn't disclose too much info. That's good. But he should NOT PUT IT ON YOU as to why he isn't telling them more!!! That's so not fair and makes YOU the bad guy! Wh… (View Post)

Cheating. Absolutely. Don't let him gaslight you into believing there is nothing wrong going on here. (View Post)

On the baby front- tell your DH that if he isn't going to shut it down, YOU will. And then do it. She asks - I'd tell her "That's none of your business". "if you keep as… (View Post)

No, it's not wrong. The kid isn't going to care. 1st bday parties are really for the parents. But if your ILs expect you all to attend all family events and will be upset that you aren'… (View Post)

This is a good approach. Depending on your personality (whether you feel you can be jokey or not), it can also be a quick "discussion" - but definitely use the "relieved that you can b… (View Post)