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Yup, another vote for dealing w your DH. If he isn't standing up to her, if he isn't the one saying "no", then none of this will ever go away. And really- I'll say this too- … (View Post)

How big of a party will this be? It doesn't sound THAT big. I say that only in that $100 may be plenty. If it's not a huge party, I might actually offer $50. I would come up with what I fee… (View Post)

I want to ditto everything Disney said. But also to what jtmh brought up - if this is all too much for her, talk to her about you going on your own sometimes. not every time and not at the loss of va… (View Post)

to reiterate the above responses, yes, some of this it about communication. Have you TOLD him what's important to you? This might be an issue of different love languages. You're doing for h… (View Post)

You have to accept that this is your dad. You know what' he's like, you know he puts your brother first. Stop expecting him to be different. He will always disappoint you otherwise. Yes, he… (View Post)