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I think we're all saying this about your DH. HE is the one who breaks plans - with you, your family, etc - all to run to his mommy and daddy. This is what you need to convey to HIM. It's R… (View Post)

I don't understand what you're saying about the wedding. There seemed to be a LOT of talk and discussion about what car to take to the wedding. DURING that discussion, all you and DH should… (View Post)

THis is really more about your DH than your ILs. He shouldn't be dropping plans to be at their beck and call. You should be able to make holiday plans w/o having to leave things open for their l… (View Post)

So. You think they are idiots, you clearly don't think highly of them, and then you pat yourself on the back for avoiding conflict and being 'well rounded'. Perhaps they realize that … (View Post)

Here's the thing - your ILs are people. Just like you, me, your CWs, the waitress at the restaurant, etc. There is nothing "special" about them or your relationship with them. I mean,… (View Post)