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What is the rundown on cash you needed (or should have had) at closing for a first home. I'm expecting things like * downpayment of course (20% for us)* closing costs (what effects whether it�… (View Post)

Thanks! I can't talk about money in 'polite society'. I certainly can't at work. This board is a rare place I feel comfortable actually expressing my joy over this. (View Post)

Have you said out loud, in words, "I want you to go down on me!"? Do that pronto. You know your sexual needs and it's your job to communicate them. If he balks...well, I certainly woul… (View Post)

We'd been in a salary freeze for a while and they just brought back cost of living raises, though they disguised them as "merit" raises. I think they did that to avoid having to give E… (View Post)

Wow. The ladies of The Nest seem very concerned for my marriage (and sanity). Ok. Let?s try this again. What would I do if my H came home and said "I am in love with somebody else and I love you… (View Post)