This is so passive agressive...have a conversation with your H and figure out what makes you both comfortable...you may have to make some compromises (i.e. the dishes may sit for a few hours). It ma… (View Post)
This has taken nearly 4 years of living together for H and I to get to a semi-OK place with this (by semi-ok I mean that it has been a month since I had a melt-down about needing help around the hous… (View Post)
yes, these other friends host get togethers (which we RSVP to and feel an obligation to attend). they plan weekends away together (which H and I don't have the budget to join for). I'm gett… (View Post)
The thing that really got me about the dinner party was that everyone I managed to talk to seemed really enthusiastic...until they called to cancel. since this happended in October, I've been fe… (View Post)
OK semi WOOHOO update! we got enough of a tax return to pay-off the CC!!! and there's enough left to put some aside to cover the dog's spay in March. This means H can open his job search mo… (View Post)