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  • Re: how well do marriages with separate finances work?

    hoffsehoffse
    June 2014
    Separate finances can absolutely work, but honestly that's not the issue here. The issue is your husband is blaming you for his spending. You guys need to sit down and track it together. Also...… (View Post)
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  • Re: College Savings

    hoffsehoffse
    June 2014
    One other thing I suggest - start researching NOW what kids need to do to get scholarships. Here's a big hint: it's almost never "have a part time job in high school." I hate to s… (View Post)
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  • Re: College Savings

    hoffsehoffse
    June 2014
    The first step is to research college tuition + fees at schools where you would be willing to send your kids. Check community college, in-state public university, out-of-state public university and p… (View Post)
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  • Re: Stressing about future

    hoffsehoffse
    June 2014
    Yeah I hardly ever recommend getting beaters as vehicles, but your combined income is so low that you really need to explore that option - and please drive CAREFULLY while you own them. Your car insu… (View Post)
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