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Why are men such A$$ES sometimes?

Just stupid dumb asses, with their bringing up stupid bad memories.

Just pisses me off. ?There was a night a little over 3 years ago that almost brought the end to my marriage. ?I really try not to think about it because I don't think the entire truth was told to me about that night. ?Stupid DH brings it up, and now I am in such a pissy mood and he is acting like nothing is wrong! ?image

Re: Why are men such A$$ES sometimes?

  • Sorry you are feeling pissy.  But I totally get what you are saying.  *hugs*
  • trust me, I am totally in that mood with you right now! I had to go in, grab the baby and nurse her to sleep, even though I didn't want to b/c she's already eaten (and it's a bad habit we need to break) but nothing else would calm her.

    DH b*tches at me that she's hungry when she's hungry and I shouldn't try to dictate when she can eat, and --get this-- if I'd fed her properly earlier and maybe produced more milk, she'd be satisfied and go to sleep. um, yeah, I'll just leave that be..

  • image2bBush:

    trust me, I am totally in that mood with you right now! I had to go in, grab the baby and nurse her to sleep, even though I didn't want to b/c she's already eaten (and it's a bad habit we need to break)?but nothing else would calm her.

    DH b*tches at me that she's hungry when she's hungry and I shouldn't try to dictate when she can eat, and --get this-- if I'd fed her properly earlier and maybe produced more milk, she'd be satisfied and go to sleep. um, yeah, I'll just leave that be..

    I used to have that argument with DH too when Jacob was nursing.?

  • it's SO obnoxious! Like all of a sudden he's ignorant of how breastmilk supply-demand works? To his credit he did come in and apologize, but I'm still mad.

    What about you? Is your DH pretending nothing is wrong?

  • image2bBush:

    it's SO obnoxious! Like all of a sudden he's ignorant of how breastmilk supply-demand works? To his credit he did come in and apologize, but I'm still mad.

    What about you? Is your DH pretending nothing is wrong?

    Yes, then he asked me for some juice. ?I told him I don't ever want to discuss that night again. He really ruined my evening. ?He said OK. ?That night I really hate, we hit the lowest point in our marriage, I thought we were headed for the big D. ?I really think he didn't tell me all the details of that night, but I don't want to know anything else, that is why I don't talk about it, and he throws it in my face for some stupid comparison to his friend's wife, which it really wasn't.

    I so just want to cry because he made me think of some of the worst times in my life. ?That was the worst year, until I found out I was pg with Jacob.?

  • well that's just mean. Isn't it horrible that the person who knows you the best -and is supposed to love you the most dearly- is also the person best capable of hurting you the most? I hate that about DH (ok, about myself, too) that we know just what buttons to push. I hope he apologizes for bringing it up!
  • Yeah I hate that too! ?I don't think he will apologize, he doesn't think he did anything, that I am being emo. That is the way he is. ?On friday we will be together for 10 years, it isn't our wedding anniversary just being together. ?You would think he would understand my emo ness by now!

    Well I am going to bed, I have to get up with Jacob in the morning for school! Hope you get your work done. Talk to you soon.

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