Okay, this may sound childish but I'm kinda annoyed. So this year my hubs Grandma didn't acknowledge my birthday. I think she forgot cause there's been alot going on with H's grandfather this year and thats fine. Well a month later she said we should go to brunch for my birthday but we never did cause I ended up having Casey. But I never got so much as a card from her... but not a big deal.
UNTIL
I just get an eamil from E's ex that said "if you talk to Gammy before I do could you tell her thank you for my birthday card and check. I got it yesterday" Her birthday was YESTERDAY. She got a card and a CHECK? She's the EX wife. WTF?????????? I wasn't even acknowledged.
Is this weird to anyone else?
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I'd be pretty peeved too. Not angry, just hurt and disappointed. In fact I'm upset for you! Is this kind of thing a regular occurence? Or was it just a slip of the mind?
Maybe she plans on making it up to you at Xmas. I would run it be E and see what he thinks. I'm sure he'll be able to shed some light on the situation...maybe?
I'm sorry. *hugs*
Ok, now that is just WEIRD!
No we found out last year that she still sends her birthday checks and christmas checks. E has asked her not to send her anymore checks as she does not need them. He says send them to Ti if she wants to send money up there. But she still sends it.
His Grandma is really with it so I don't know what this was. Oh well. I'm not mad I'm just confused and I dont get it. Not to mention Ex is so rude to her and wont even answer her calls. Case and point she asked me to thank Grandma for her. She cant just call and thank her? rude.
That's crazy! I would find it very strange but would try not to let it bother me. Maybe she's not as "with it" as you guys all think.
ummm yeah i'd totally be wondering what the heck is going on, and aside from that..i'd call Granny, hi Granny calling to say hi and see how you're doing, and then oh by the way, "the ex called she asked me to tell you thanks for the Birthday card AND check! "
Love you Granny, BYE!