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Good and Sad news.... update on my illness
So good news first. I got my tests today, and the doctor said that things are looking up. It looks like my infection is starting to clear and I need another round of antibotics, but I should be back to normal by next week. Fingers crossed. This is all dependant on my biopsies coming back normal/negative. So i'm hoping for that. So thats the good news.
The bad news....... I wont be able to travel for xmas, so DH is going to go see his family by himself and leave me at home. So I'll be spending christmas eve and christmas day alone.... all by myself. I'm pretty depressed about this. I guess i have sasha and nala,but still. its my first xmas all alone. 
But spending the holiday with my dog and cat is WAY better than in the hospital!! Have a good holiday everyone. Open some gifts for me. 
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huh??? totally may be flamed for this but wtf is up with your husband leaving you alone on both x-mas eve and x-mas? I understand it's his family but you are his wife and you've been very sick the last month. Plus with not being 100% , I would think he'd want to be at your side as often as he can. Well, if it were my husband sick like this, I would want to be.
I'm sorry but it's x-mas and he's your husband! X-mas is meant to be spent with the ones you love....bah hum bug on him:(
I'm so sorry...sending you warm cocoa and lotsa hugs! Although you deserve soo much more than that:)
Gosh Tonya...I'm so sorry you are yet again having to go through these problems with your health...I really hope that the next round of antibiotics takes care of things for you.
On a side note, I gotta agree with Lisa about your husband leaving you alone on Christmas, that's just not right in my book. Family or not, you are his number one priority and he should be with you. His family should totally understand...and if they don't...wow!
Autumn - I have to chime in, too. You have written several posts about your husband not seeming to care for your needs at all. Particularly when you have been sick. The not shaving because he is not getting sex, to not shopping for you or even cleaning the house when you are on bedrest, to leaving you alone despite some serious health concerns......
Seriously, are you OK? Because every woman deserves better than that.
Tonya, ?my heart goes out to you. ?I feel so bad that you will be alone for Christmas. ?I really do have to agree with the other posters. ?I have never had to spend Christmas alone. ?Even when DH is working, I was always invited to spend the Holiday at the station. ?Do you have a friend's house you can go to? ?I really do feel so bad.?
I hope the next round of antibiotics work.?
Oh Tonya,
I am speechless. On one hand I am so happy to hear that the infection is clearing up. On the other hand, no one should ever spend xmas alone. You deserve better than that.
I am sending lots of hugs.
Tonya! I'm so glad that things are looking up for you. However my heart just breaks thinking that you will be alone. That isn't okay. I'm so sorry. I have to agree with Lisa and the others on this. I wish I could come spend the day with you. You shouldn't have to be alone during the holiday's.
Hugs my friend. It's not enough though.
This is really sad news!! I cannot believe your DH is doing this to you!! Are you sure you are ok? Alone for Christmas is not ok, he is your husband and like the others said you are his family now! Hugs to you!! Like Jayme said, it isn't enough.
On the other hand, I'm glad you are feeling better and things are looking up with your health.