HELP!!

jgui3087

Hello all I need a little advice on how I can make my husband sexually interested in me again. For a few months I have been turning him down because I have been super stressed out with work and now that I have a new job Im feeling much beter but my husband tells me that after me turning him down so much he just int sexually intersted anymore. I also just recently found out that he was having an affair which he has given up because he said that he wants to be with his family and that she was not important. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????????????????????????????           

R.Wilsonny

Seriously, cheating is a deal breaker. So if it were me, I'd be kicking his a$$ out. But that's just me.

MLE2010

He's getting it somewhere, he's admitted to cheating so....

doglove

What is left in this relationship?

vpine

First, know this isn't YOUR fault that he's disrespected you and broken his vows. Second, leave now.

magsugar13

You should throw his shiot out on the lawn and change the locks.

DaringMiss

Counseling and lots of it.

There has been a lot of damage done to your relationship.  We here on the internets have no way of knowing if your marriage can be saved.  You and your husband will have to go to a marriage counselor with willing hearts and minds and try to rebuild the trust in your relationship.

www.survivinginfidelity.com

Good luck.  You guys will need it.

loves2shop4shoes

Let me get this straight.  You want to find out how to get your husband sexually interested in you again...AFTER you have learned that he has been having an affair, which he refuses to stop?

You need to get in your car and do the following:
1.  Drive to the doctor's and get an STD test
2.  Drive to a lawyer's office and file paperwork
3.  Drive to a locksmith's and change the locks
4.  Drive to your local therapist and beg them to take you on as a new patient

And once you're home, throw his shit out on the porch as messily as possible.

Sillygirl45

Well, your actual question is how to make him sexually interested in you again. It appears he is pretty interested in people he is not married to. So, divorce him. The added bonus for you is it would solve more than just one of your problems.

Hooper88

My DH would never get away with cheating and I would not expect for him to let me get away with it either.  If he cheated I feel like I could never trust him again!

brittanymclark

I think that counseling is the ultimate way to go! Also, pray a lot about it.

Kimbus22

I'd get an STD test and go to counseling.  Your sex life is the least of your problems right now. 

Cheating is not an automatic deal breaker for me.  Especially if you have kids.  But it's something that take a lot of time and effort to work through. It seems like you both want to do that.  So get a counselor and start.

TarponMonoxide

What happened to my reply???? Looks like the Nest snuffed it or lost it.

Bump this jerk out of your life. Cheating is a dealbreaker. Nuff said.