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Doing something more/new?

Not sure if this is too much for this board or not but my husband and I are on our honeymoon. Saturday night was our wedding night and we were in town all day sunday and left early monday morning for our honeymoon to florida. Saturday and Sunday I didn't enjoy it all and cried after both times we had sex. Now that we're in florida I am enjoying it. My maid of honor gave me this sex game and I told him I wish we would have brought it now that I'm enjoying it. Anyone have any ideas of how to make it more fun or anything like that?

Re: Doing something more/new?

  • First and foremost....Congratulations on your marriage.

    Honestly, you are on your honeymoon.....enjoy spending the time with your new husband. Enjoy making love. Get off the computer, shut off the phones and just enjoyed each other. You'll be back in the real world before you know it or want to admit it.

    Once again congrats!!
  • Why did you cry? Were you a virgin when you go married? Stressed and anxious? 

    Either way, stop over analyzing and go have fun. Don't focus on sex, just have a good time with your husband and let things happen or not. New positions, foreplay, etc. should be enough to mix things up over the course of a week. 
    image Nicholas loved for 28 weeks, 4/11/10
    Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
    Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
  • Did you and he take your time?

    The first time, the second time, the last time.... and every other time in between, do so.  There is no hurry and no rush.

    Use lots of lube and you guys are not in a race. Take care.
  • Just do what feels natural, and crying is totally normal, not just the first time. I cry from time to time still, usually when it was just that good ;)

  • Why did you cry?  Were you a virgin prior to being married?  Were you sexually abused or assaulted?
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  • i was a virgin... wedding night was first time... only cried after the first two times.. I don't cry anymore. 
  • Pin each other down.  Lots of Oral.  Role Play.  Switch up positions.  Do it in front of the mirror.  Take a shower together.  Rub each other under the table at dinner and whisper to them what you're going to do to them when you get back to the room.  Man I could go on and on.  HAVE FUN!
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