FFFC

bridget0117

Anyone got anything?

bridget0117

I do!!

DH just left and I'm already hungry, so I got up and ate like 6 cookies :-( I blame it on LO! :-)

botanicalbliss

I get irrationally sad when no one "loves" my pictures.

saisongbird

I have an irrational fear of m/c.  While DH's mother had 2 or 3 m/c's, my family has no history of them and thankfully, we conceived quickly.  I'm just terrified that at each appointment something is going to go terribly wrong.

AshleyMatt1215

I'm convinced something's going to be wrong at my US next week. I have no reason for this thought.

pennstated912

AshleyMatt1215 said:

I'm convinced something's going to be wrong at my US next week. I have no reason for this thought.

This is mine for my A/S. I can't get it out of my head.

wiggyslilsis

Ugh I had like 3 yesterday and now I can't remember them.

wiggyslilsis

Okay well here is one. I haven't showered in longer than I am willing to admit. I have so many other things to do that it just keeps getting pushed aside. I also want to do my legs (I use veet) and I don't like doing that during her nap because it takes twice as long to shower and I feel like if she were to cry or get hurt I couldn't do anything with chemicals all over my legs.

It is supposed to start raining tonight so maybe I will during her nap and just skip the legs....again.

Venti29

I don't use baby wash cloths, I did at first, now nope.

Ummm, I had one more but I can't remember!

bridget0117

I have another.

I want ST so bad but DH is terrified of hurting LO. I am scared I won't get ST until I get cleared after giving birth.

I want ST and I want it now!!!

pennstated912

Oh! I also can't seem to stay away from chocolate. Even when I'm not hungry. Someone needs to take the chocolate out of my house and the keys away to my car since the grocery store is a block from our house.

I feel so gross.

bridget0117

@penn, I'm the same way!! Every time I go to the store I grab a chocolate and hide it in my purse until I'm ready to eat it. :-( the only reason I hide it is because the other day I got a bag of m&ms and put it in the snack drawer, when I went looking for them they were gone!!! I begged DH to just tell me if he ate them and he swears he didn't. No one else lives here so I don't get it. :-( I'm still upset about my m&ms. Lol

pennstated912

@bridget - we have a vending machine physically in my office that has basically nothing but chocolate. It's a vicious cycle.

lb1117

No FFFC, but now I want Chocolate...thanks :-p

pennstated912

I just got M&Ms.. This is seriously becoming a problem lol

AshleyMatt1215

I want a slim Jim.

bridget0117

Hahaha,!! Look at what I have.

Seriously this is a problem but I'm okay with this problem. Lol.

@LB1117, :-P sorry lol!

sgautschi

I feel like a terrible wife and I cried about it last night, in silence because I didn't want DH to know I was upset. I feel like I can't please him sexually because either I'm not in the mood because I feel like crap or am in pain, or Im in the mood but my mind quickly overtakes my brain and kills any mood I did have. Part of it is that I'm scared I'll kick start false or true labor. I have no reason to even think that sex caused it last time, but I still can't help but be nervous...And it's upsetting because I feel like part of my "job" as a wife is to make sure he is taken care of, and it makes me guilty that he has been helping me around the house a lot lately and I can't even give him what he deserves.

Someone tell me you've been through this and that everything will be okay.

bridget0117

@sgautschi I I feel the same way sometimes. Not with the sexual part because I'm the one that wants it and he wants it too but he is so scared lol. I'm feeling like a bad wife with the little things I don't do. Like putting away the laundry and cooking every night. DH works a lot and he's the one that keeps the business going and I feel bad not cooking every night but blahh.

ream02

bridget0117 said:

I have another. I want ST so bad but DH is terrified of hurting LO. I am scared I won't get ST until I get cleared after giving birth. I want ST and I want it now!!!

When I was pg with DS I got cut off at 22 weeks by DH. He just couldn't fathom doing anything ST related with me knowing that our child was so close to his, you know.. When I was close to my due date the doctor told him 2 or 3 times we needed to DTD to speed things up. But he wasn't having it. I didn't get it the first time for like 3 weeks after the dr cleared us at the 6 wk appt. So far he's been ok, but as soon as he feels this one move I'm certain I'll get cut off again.

bridget0117

ream02 said:

bridget0117 said:

I have another.

I want ST so bad but DH is terrified of hurting LO. I am scared I won't get ST until I get cleared after giving birth.

I want ST and I want it now!!!

When I was pg with DS I got cut off at 22 weeks by DH. He just couldn't fathom doing anything ST related with me knowing that our child was so close to his, you know.. When I was close to my due date the doctor told him 2 or 3 times we needed to DTD to speed things up. But he wasn't having it. I didn't get it the first time for like 3 weeks after the dr cleared us at the 6 wk appt. So far he's been ok, but as soon as he feels this one move I'm certain I'll get cut off again.


I'm so scared of this! I need my ST but I know I'm cut off until who knows when. :-(

ream02

bridget0117  It was definitely hard for me, more so because I felt totally disconnected from DH and felt that I wasn't attractive to him anymore. I missed the closeness more than the actual act of ST. Of course then my mind would wander with where he was getting it from, but he was home every night and every weekend so I knew I was just being insecure.

pennstated912

bridget0117 said:

Hahaha,!! Look at what I have.

Seriously this is a problem but I'm okay with this problem. Lol.

@LB1117, :-P sorry lol!

Yes!! Care to share?

sgautschi

@Bridget I think that's what makes it worse. Not only do I not feel like I'm living up to fulfilling his needs sexually, but I've been so tired and uncomfortable that I hardly cook anymore. I feel totally pathetic and I don't like it.

bridget0117

ream02 said:

bridget0117  It was definitely hard for me, more so because I felt totally disconnected from DH and felt that I wasn't attractive to him anymore. I missed the closeness more than the actual act of ST. Of course then my mind would wander with where he was getting it from, but he was home every night and every weekend so I knew I was just being insecure.

I'm the same way! I also freak out thinking that he's getting ST from another place but just like your DH he's home every night and I know I'm being insecure. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way.

bridget0117

pennstated912 said:

bridget0117 said:

Hahaha,!! Look at what I have.

Seriously this is a problem but I'm okay with this problem. Lol.

@LB1117, :-P sorry lol!

Yes!! Care to share?

Only if you share your m&ms. :-P

wiggyslilsis

@bridget0117 and @sgautschi DH and I had ST like 3 times the entire pregnancy. I felt awful the whole time and when I feel crappy he doesn't feel like he can initiate and then I feel like he doesn't want me. Luckily for me things got better after I had her and we got into a nice groove but it was also the first time in my life I didn't have pain during sex. I have been nauseous, getting migraines and just not feeling well and we have gone back into our bad cycle but it was easier to recognize this time and fix.

AshleyMatt1215

...I kind of wish DH wasn't okay with pregnant ST. He's loving it. I don't know if it's because it's risk free for the first time in his life or if he's just that happy that I've gone from a DD to an E. 

However, we have our A/S next week and that may entirely change his mind. 

ream02

AshleyMatt1215 said:

...I kind of wish DH wasn't okay with pregnant ST. He's loving it. I don't know if it's because it's risk free for the first time in his life or if he's just that happy that I've gone from a DD to an E. 

However, we have our A/S next week and that may entirely change his mind. 

That's about when mine changed. It was way to real and vivid for him from then on.

skreedrake

I ate a Toaster Strudel for lunch today. Strawberry and Cream Cheese.

bridget0117

@wiggyslilsis, before I got pregnant I was on the implanon and I never wanted to do it so we started arguing because I wasn't into it. After I removed the implanon my libido came back and while we were TTC sex became awesome then it started sucking just a few weeks ago because he is scared! I plan on going back on the implanon after LO is born and I'm scared the same thing will happen again.