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I am an occasional lurker here. I try not to lurk too much because I get over excited about thinking of trying to buy a house too soon. We have our timeline set, and I doubt anything will be ready before then.
Anyway, I have been working on getting our credit in line, and I am curious. I have heard that TransUnion's credit score is usually much more generous than Equifax or Experian. I hate that because the lender we will probably try to go through uses the Equifax score, which I have hard is generally very strict. Did these trends seem to hold true for you, ladies?
I know all three of my scores at the moment, but I always see my TransUnion drastically improve far ahead of Equifax or Experian. While looking at my TransUnion score keeps me motivated, looking at the other two makes me feel like I'm fighting a losing battle sometimes.
Re: Credit question
Transunion might just be faster at updating their records.
But, the lender has to go the most conservative route. If the Tu score is 750 and the Ex and Eq scores are 643 and 625, respectively, the latter two are probably better indictors for the lenders to base a risk decision on. Lenders are in the business of two things: Making the bank money (interest) and covering their behinds from defaults on mortgages.
The numbers are only a small portion of an application, though. What will hold more weight are the actual contents of the credit reports...the details.
The policy varies by the bank. The bank I used for my home loan used my middle score, regardless of "who" the middle was.
Debt to income will also be a large factor -
pay off your credit cards and pay in full each month you use them. Keep you usage of them to no more than 15% of the allowable limit.
As a PP mentioned, if you do use it pay it off every month. (I used to be a loan officer and still working in banking, and even I know that this is easier said than done. But one day when H and I have ours paid off this is what we will do.)
We have no open credit cards. I am currently almost done paying off one small credit card from years ago when we hit hard times and had to live off of it, but it will be done in minimum two months if not next month. The account is already closed and has been for a long time. I have just been paying it off. Otherwise, we have only my few student loans, a car loan of only about $2000 left (will be paid off a year early this coming March at the latest if we stay on track), and we have a few collections marked as PAID on both of our reports that we have taken care of. The couple on mine were from where we cancelled luxury services (such as cable and internet) when we hit hard times, and the ones on his are from his previous marriage (some accounts were opened well after his divorce but he had never even checked his credit report until I started talking about last year; we tried disputing and got no where so just closed and paid them). I am not sure what his scores are exactly, but I know that both of us are over 600 now (as opposed to his starting point in the 300s and my 475 two years ago).
What hit my credit so hard was that I honestly just had no credit history other than the one maxed out credit card and three collections until my student loans. And I had a year of good payment history only using about 20% of my limit each month and then paying off in full on that credit card before we ended up in a bind and had to use it to live off of. There just wasn't much choice. But we have made some major improvements. And we both agree that I am responsible enough to handle a credit card, but we also both acknowledge that mH is not. While I would only use it for a tank of gas a month and then pay it off each month, he says he would be too tempted to try to use it if he had access to it.
Rather than have a potential money financial argument starter in our home, I'd rather just not have a credit card. I don't like the idea of having to have debt to have good credit anyway. Shouldn't it make more sense to have no debt and have good credit? I know it doesn't work that way, but it should.
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In my over 20 years of credit history, Transunion has always been the slowest to update for me and months behind the others.
I really don't want to be rude, but I just don't understand the concept of your husband not being able to handle a credit card. It isn't free money, it has to be paid back. Given his history of mis-using it (a credit score of 300??) and now having issues to the point where you can't even buy a home- you'd think that that would be enough of a lesson to scare someone into being responsible.