would u b ok with this?

chasemamabear

My hubby works as a mechanic and always comes home coveted in grease and oil, which is perfectly fine. My issue is, I don't t like him coming to bed without showering. I don't want all of the grease ect. In my bed...gross. There are nights we will go to bed later and he will go to climb into bed without showering and he gets annoyed when I ask him to shower. Would u b OK with ur hubby coming to bed filthy?? Am I being to controlling about it? I really just don't like the idea of all of those chemicals in my bed.

snuff9861

EWWW gross. H is a plumber, so hell yea he is showering. But he generally shower when he gets home from work anyways.

I would totally be with you and wanting your H to shower before he got in bed, sat on the couch or touched anything in the house really.

mana8503

H was a mechanic too, then worked on a road crew... no way he was touching anything in the house before showering and changing.  He agreed so we didn't have a problem.  That sh!t is hard to clean off fabrics!

ramstein1027

Nope!  I would definitely be doing the same thing.  That's not good for your sheets or bed either, and if they get ruined you'll have to buy new ones...that's the angle I would use, at least

minionlover

I would think that he would want to shower after getting all dirty like that.  I personally would want him to shower so I do not think that you are being unreasonable.

chasemamabear

Thank u! I would think he would want to shower too! He doesn't like showering when he gets home....gross enough....and he complains some nights that he's too tired to shower....too bad! Yuck!

goatlady12

I would make him shower too.  I get that he's tired, but that ruins bedding.  And bedding isn't that cheap!

mrshall1027

I would definitely want him to shower!  And most likely, right when he gets home.  When H is working in the yard or garage and gets sweaty and stinky, I make him shower when he comes back into the house.  I don't want sweat and dirt all over the house!

mpjf1001

I would def want him to shower too! H is in construction and comes home filthy as well. We have a rule that since im the one that washes and changes the sheets on our bed he is not allowed in it unless he is clean. On nights he gets home late from school or soccer and doesnt want to shower he sleeps in the den on the futon!

xxjen015

Um, yeah, he'd need to shower. I know I sometimes get into bed without showering when I should have, but never after having done something like that. 

catwine

yeeeeeah, I'd want him to shower too.  my husband doesn't even get into bed if he is sweaty or stinky.