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Communication

I need some advice.  My fiancé and are will be married on June 27 2014 and  we were doing better with communicating. When is parents push him and control him and such He tends to not communicate to me and it drives me nuts I will ask him what is wrong and he wont tell me.  How do you deal with that because I need to be communicated with other wise I feel like I am being punished for something I did not do. I do give him his space but he goes numb and  it makes me nervous. When he does this I know that something  happen at his house. Hopefully he will communicate to me once we are in our own house and he is free from his parents.

Re: Communication

  • Sorry this will be harsh but I'm reading a lot of red flags. "pushed away, punished, numb, nervous". He will never be "free" from his parents unless he cuts them completely out of his life. You both need to start counseling now to work on communication and to set boundaries that you both agree on in regards to his family. Shiny rings and moving won't magically stop his lack of communication with you. Good luck!
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