While I am not struggling with IF (that we aware of), I still get intensely angry when I hear about the insensitivities that those that are stuggling deal with. Since being here on this board I am so much more aware of the stuggles of others and I always speak up about IF or to offer support to those that suffer. I have listened to my mothers stories about my uncles making fun of my dad for "not doing it right" and even my own experience of having my very close cousin constantly asking me month after month whats taking me so long to get pregnant, "you're young" she says,"you have young eggs" she says, when at 38 she got pregnant 3 months into a brand new relationship with a man, after being with women for 10 years. She should know better since her own sister suffered with IF for 10 years before they finally just gave up.
IF isnt anyones fault. You cant prevent it. There are so many other human defects that occur on a daily basis, why is IF one that people dont seem to think have sensitive filter about?
Either way, even if I dont comment a lot or understand what is going on, please know that each of you ladies have had a huge impact on my heart and I keep my fingers crossed daily for your current and future babies no matter how you receive them.