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Ugh Appointment

Well we had our follow up appointment this morning. Unfortunately baby is still measuring at 5w6d and no heartbeat. So we are back to square one of TTC and IF. She gave us the option of a D&C or just to allow it to happen naturally. I'm going with natural and will have another ultrasound in a week to see if it has passed.

Thankfully we both took the day off of work and are meeting up to spend the day with the only 2 people who knew about our previous miscarriage. They are a couple we met on Hs car forum and they share the same religious views as us. So I'm happy they can help us get our minds off things and we will have someone to talk to.

Thank you to everyone for the thoughts and prayers. They have meant everything to us. Now we are praying to naturally miscarry because I'm scared shitless of a D&C.

For right now I'm enjoying my peppermint mocha from Starbucks, and am picking up a bottle of wine for sometime this week. Thankfully the Dr told me I can resume my regular eating and drinking and I am no longer on pelvic rest. So yay sex and running!

TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

TTC 2.0   6/15 
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • Sorry :(  Glad you guys have some good support.

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  • I am so sorry to hear this news :-(  *hugs*  I just wish there was more I could do for you :-(
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  • I'm sorry. ::hugs:: It's really wonderful you have those friends to talk to. 
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  • Oh brij, I'm so so sorry to hear this. Enjoy your wine and take it easy. You're in our thoughts.

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  • I'm so sorry :( ((hugs)) We are here for you if/when you need us, even just to listen. You know where to find me.
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
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  • Oh Brij!  I'm so so so sorry.  ((hugs))  I'll be praying for you and your H.
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  • Oh, Brij!!  :(( I'm so sad for you guys. 

    It's great you have friends to meet up with and help you through this; I hope it helps get your mind off things and brings some smiles.

    Praying you're able to naturally miscarry and then can heal and be ready to try again. I'm here for anything you need.

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    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
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  • I am so sorry. :( I will be keeping you and your DH in my t&p's. ((Hugs))
  • I'm so so sorry. I will be thinking of you. This just sucks... :(

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  • I'm so so sorry brij. I was really hoping for anything but this. I know you're a strong person and you'll move forward, but I wish it didn't have to be this way.

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  • I'm so sorry.  I'm glad that you and DH can spend the day together.  Try to take care of yourself - we are all thinking of you.
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  • Lots of thoughts, prayers, and hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss. We're all here for you. If you need someone to listen, feel free to private message me. 
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • oh brij.  I'm so sorry.  I was so hoping for better news for you.  Big squishy ((hugs))

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    off bcp 11/11
    a few rounds of clomid and femara... no response.
    injectables/IUI 12/12... BFN
    Feb 13 IVF cycle converted down to IUI due to low follicle response... BFFN
    one last IVF attempt April/May 2013: 19 retrieved. 10 fertilized. 2 transferred in a 3dt. 4 frosties... BFP!!
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  • I'm so sorry this is happening. you know we're here for you if you need anything.
  • I was lurking to find an update from you. My heart is so saddened for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. If you have questions about D&C vs. natural feel free to pm me.

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    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • I am so sorry.  I hope you can miscarry naturally if that's what you want, but just know if you have to go the D&C route it really isn't bad at all.  ((hugs))
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  • Ugh, I'm so sorry! ((hugs)) You and YH are in my prayers.  Take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry today confirmed the worst. I'm praying you have a natural m/c but know that you have support from people on here who have had to go the d&c route (myslef included) if you need it. Keep leaning on the people who love you.
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  • Dammit Dammit Dammit.  I'm sorry this is happening.  I was really hoping for growth.  Enjoy your starbucks and wine!

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  • I'm so so sorry to be reading this. Enjoy your Starbucks, wine, running and sexy time.

    I hope time with your husband and this other couple is healing. I am glad you guys were able to get the day off together.

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  • So sorry for this news, brij. Sending thoughts and prayers.
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope for your own peace that it goes naturally.
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  • (((HUGS))) I had a D&C and it's not as scary as it sounds. I'm sorry you are going through this though.
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  • I'm sorry, girl. ((hugs))

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • I'm sorry for your loss. :(  I had two D&Cs, so let me know if you have any questions if that becomes an issue. I hope you don't end up needing one. ((hugs))
    BFP 9/22/10, missed m/c 11/1/10 at 9w3d, D&C 11/3/10, diagnosis: trophoblastic hyperplasia
    BFP 6/18/11, missed m/c 8/16/11 at 11w2d, D&C 8/17/11, diagnosis: baby girl with Trisomy 21
    BFP 5/29/12, healthy baby boy born 2/12/13 at 40w5d :)
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  • I'm so sorry, Brij.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this. : (

    Thinking of you.

     

     

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I am so very sorry. Thinking of you and your DH
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