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And Again.... (LR)

I know there are some of you that don't check GPM regularly.  So I figured I would make a post over here too.  Especially since I'm interested in doing the Biggest Loser thing, and I didn't want anyone thinking I was doing it while pregnant.

H and I found out yesterday that we lost the baby.  This is our 2nd miscarriage, and we are devastated. It quit growing at 5w6d, which is a week and 2 days longer than the prior one grew. Our emotions are all over the place, and for now we're just trying to "be."  I started having some spotting a little after 6 weeks (that I was told was normal/brought on by sex and not to be concerned about), and around 8 weeks I told H that I didn't think things were right in there.  We didn't have our first appointment and ultrasound until 9 weeks.

Here's a couple of posts I did on GPM that is more descriptive on what happened, and how things went along.

http://forums.thenest.com/discussion/12006660/t-p-s-please-a-bit-descriptive/p1

http://forums.thenest.com/discussion/12006748/first-appointment-ultrasound-long/p1

http://forums.thenest.com/discussion/12007129/ugh-appointment/p1

We have discussed things, and we are planning to TTC again right away.  According to the ultrasound the cysts on my ovaries have diminished greatly, and my Dr is hopeful that this pregnancy may have corrected them some.  So they are recommending we not wait to try again, if we are mentally prepared for it. We know that we aren't mentally ready for another round of Clomid, and to be honest I'm not sure when we will be.  H wasn't keen on it in the first place, and is still against IUI or IVF at all.  Along with adoption.  So if my body doesn't kick itself into gear, then I know our only shot is Clomid or no kids at all. Which makes me scared to do it again knowing it is the only option my husband will agree to, and if it doesn't work then I face never having children.

Right now we're waiting on a natural miscarriage, and I go back next Monday for another ultrasound to see if it has passed.  If it has not, then my Dr is okay with waiting another week.  If at that point it hasn't passed on its own, then we will discuss a D&C.

TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

TTC 2.0   6/15 
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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Re: And Again.... (LR)

  • *hugs* Again, I'm sorry for you loss. 
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • I've already told you how very sorry I am for you guys. I'm here if you need anything, even just someone to vent to. Sending you and D many healing vibes in moving on after this loss.

    I'm so very hopeful you won't need the Clomid again and can get pregnant naturally very soon.

    ((hugs)) sweetie.

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    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • Again, I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss :-(
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    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
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  • I'm so sorry for you... :( xoxox

     

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry, you and your H are in my thoughts
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, Brij. I'm glad that you and your DH are a good support system for each other. Sending lots of healing vibes. <3<3<3

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • I'm so sorry again brij

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
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  • So sorry for you loss!
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  • I can't say I'm sorry enough. This just sucks...Big hugs to you and your H.

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  • I am sorry this has happened to you. Very sorry for your loss.
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  • Sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your H.


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  • I did see this on GPM and Brij once again I am so sorry for your loss.

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  • I am so sorry, Brij. (((Hugs))) sending love and thoughts your way.
  • I'm so sorry, Brij. ((hugs))

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  • I'm so sorry. Sending T&Ps your way.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss Brij.
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    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

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  • I'm really sorry. :(
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
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    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs))

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  • So very sorry :(

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Adding you to my T&Ps.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I've been keeping you in my thoughts.  We're all here for you *hugs*
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    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. (hugs)
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  • Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this, Brij. :( Thinking of you.

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  • Sorry to hear of this.

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  • I'm so sorry, Brij.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

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  • So sorry for your loss.
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