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Tough Decisions have been made. :(

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Re: Tough Decisions have been made. :(

  • As difficult as TTA can be when all you want is a baby, focusing on your marriage and your own health (both physically and mentally) will only set you up for success when the time is right.  Hugs!
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    First date July 31, 1999    Married January 28, 2009 
    TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 
    DS born: February 21, 2012

    TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
  • Hugs! I hope this break is helpful for you and H.
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  • It's a hard decision but a break can be wonderful for the mind and the marriage. My "break cycles" were amazing and relaxing and rejuvenating! Now you will be able to enjoy the holidays!
    Diagnosed with Severe DOR at 31 years old (AMH .14 FSH 9.8) 
    D & L are here at 34 weeks 4 days by vaginal and breech delivery on 11/19/2013

  • I'm sure this was a really hard decision for you and your H to make. Personally, I have felt huge relief since stopping TTC and our marriage is better than ever. Wishing you peace and a renewed sense of happiness for the future.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • (hugs) I'm sorry you had to have this conversation, but I hope that this break is exactly what you both need to be in a better place.

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • I'm sorry for you too, but this break might be good for you. TTC can get quite stressful, especially if you were having issues. Just take it easy and I'm sure good things will happen for you when the time is right. GL
  • I hope your break is just what you need. I'm glad you're sticking around.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • Big hugs lady. I hope this break is exactly what you need to hit the refresh button on things... Now or in a few years.

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  • Lots of hugs to you.

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    - Gayle Forman
    "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
    - Neil Gaiman

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  • I'm so sorry, Brij. I hope you both find peace soon.
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    TTC #1 since 9/12
  • I hope this break is exactly what you guys need to heal. ***hugs***
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    We Said I Do 09/06/09
    We love our Frankie Dog (5yo pit) and our Paco Kitty Dx Endo 12/09 Lupron 3/10-9/10 BFP 08/11 Bday 3/27/12 Lap Surgery 2/26/13
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  • I'm glad you're both on the same page. Hopefully taking a break will help you mend and move forward. Strength and hugs!

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
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