Trouble in Paradise
Damik
member
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
For those that know Damik (Danie) and aren't on her Facebook
I see she hasn't posted in a little while, but I know she used to speak of this community fondly. I'm Shalia, her older sister. (She sometimes referred to me as "Stacy" online and in her blog, but my name is Shalia.) I hate to be the one to tell everyone this, but she lost her 15 year battle with major depression and schizoaffective disorder on the 2nd of Dec. (Well, technically she did the deed on the 29th, it just took a few days for them to declare her brain dead. Long story. Feel free to PM if you're a friend and want more details but I don't think I need to clutter up the board with them.)
I made an account for myself "Menelly" but it won't let me post here for "a few days" so I broke into her account. (She really needed to use different passwords.)
I'm not trying to be a creep, I don't have any clue what "MUD" is but I'm not a troll. I wish to God I wasn't telling the truth because I'd give anything to have my little sister back. 
I'm just trying to tie up loose ends and thought people here who know and love her would like to know.
I'm just trying to tie up loose ends and thought people here who know and love her would like to know.Moderator, if this isn't appropriate, I'm sorry. You can delete. If there is a general moderator who'd like proof to keep it up, feel free to PM on this account or Menelly and I can get a (blurred out for some privacy) copy of her death certificate for you.
Sorry if I ruined the mood of your board. I just always hated when good friends on boards disappeared with no closure, and I know a good number of you have worried about her mental health for years. Someone (can't find it, but I tried) even got ahold of me on FB because they were worried so I figure you are good friends.
This is the only post I intend to post from her account. After this I'll be on Menelly. (Well, maybe. If it lets me post cause I'm "new". Seriously, frustrating rule!)
Thanks,
Shalia - Danie/Damik's older sister
Re: For those that know Damik (Danie) and aren't on her Facebook
Someone posted about her passing on ProBoards last week. I'm so very sorry. Your sister really struggled and her posts were heartbreaking. It makes me so sad that she lost her battle. HUGS!
"Don't marry a man unless you would be PROUD to have a son exactly like him." ~ Unknown
There was a large migration of posters from here to proboards about a year ago. They basically set up the same boards as here over there because they didn't like how The Nest was handling the boards.
You can see the Trouble in Paradise board over there by following this link. I appears that there is a damik username there, as well.
http://pandce.proboards.com/board/42/trouble-paradise
I remember her well.
Sending good thoughts to you and your family.