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IVF Questions

Well, I was hoping for a Christmas miracle, but AF just arrived.  I was on my last injects/IUI cycle before moving to IVF.  I am trying to look towards the future instead of feeling sad during the holidays.  I scheduled an appointment with my RE for the middle of January to discuss the next steps.  I'm wondering what questions to ask during my appointment.  I'm planning to ask about the percent of live births in my age group with my diagnosis, and how many embryos will she plan to transfer.  I feel like there a million more questions to ask, but I'm at a loss.  I'd really like to have a list put together for the appointment so I don't miss anything.  Any insight from you ladies is much appreciated. 
SIGGY WARINING

Me: 32 | He: 35
TTC since Sept 2011
DX: Unexplained
1st round of clomid: Jan 2013 BFP - M/C 8 weeks
surprise BFP Apr 2013 - M/C 9 weeks
IUI #1 clomid Jul 2013 = BFN
IUI #2 clomid Aug 2013 = BFN
IUI #3 injects Oct 2013 = BFN
IUI #4 injects Dec 2013 = BFN
IVF #1 March 2014 - 12R/12F, one perfect day 5 blast transferred
BFP!! Beta#1 = 431 Beta#2 = 914 Beta#3 = 2207 HB = 166!!



Re: IVF Questions

  • Ask if you will be cycling alone, or if they group people together. What times they can do bloodwork, scans so you know how timing will work with your job. What day transfer they shoot for (day three or five) and why. What protocol they will use. How often will you be seeing the RE vs nurses. That's all I can think of. Good luck!
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  • Seahorse has good questions.

    I don't have anything to add, except that I'm sorry AF had to come at all, especially NOW. Big ((hugs)).
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    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • Number of embryos they plan on transferring? Cost of freezing sperm and embryos? Rest periods post-ER and post-ET? Will you need ICSI? Cost? Can you convert to ICSI mid-cycle? (we did this) will you be cycling with other patients?
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
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  • Thank you ladies! I'm so glad this board exists.  What do you mean cycling with other patients? I didn't realize that was something they did.  Probably a dumb question, but I don't know if this is pro or con.
    SIGGY WARINING

    Me: 32 | He: 35
    TTC since Sept 2011
    DX: Unexplained
    1st round of clomid: Jan 2013 BFP - M/C 8 weeks
    surprise BFP Apr 2013 - M/C 9 weeks
    IUI #1 clomid Jul 2013 = BFN
    IUI #2 clomid Aug 2013 = BFN
    IUI #3 injects Oct 2013 = BFN
    IUI #4 injects Dec 2013 = BFN
    IVF #1 March 2014 - 12R/12F, one perfect day 5 blast transferred
    BFP!! Beta#1 = 431 Beta#2 = 914 Beta#3 = 2207 HB = 166!!



  • Thank you ladies! I'm so glad this board exists.  What do you mean cycling with other patients? I didn't realize that was something they did.  Probably a dumb question, but I don't know if this is pro or con.

    Some places will "batch" patients so they only do retrievals/transfers certain months. So your cycle might make you ready to start in January but they might hold you in BCPs until February when they have more people.

    No pro (for you) and the only con is probably just having to wait longer to start than you would otherwise.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • Sounds like you've gotten some good questions to ask. I'm no help b/c I didn't ask any questions. I just called the RE and told them we were ready to go.

    Also, check out the IF board on the bump. I learned a lot there.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • sart.org will give you that live birth rate info and allow you to filter results based on diagnosis.
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  • Thank you!  This is incredibly helpful.
    SIGGY WARINING

    Me: 32 | He: 35
    TTC since Sept 2011
    DX: Unexplained
    1st round of clomid: Jan 2013 BFP - M/C 8 weeks
    surprise BFP Apr 2013 - M/C 9 weeks
    IUI #1 clomid Jul 2013 = BFN
    IUI #2 clomid Aug 2013 = BFN
    IUI #3 injects Oct 2013 = BFN
    IUI #4 injects Dec 2013 = BFN
    IVF #1 March 2014 - 12R/12F, one perfect day 5 blast transferred
    BFP!! Beta#1 = 431 Beta#2 = 914 Beta#3 = 2207 HB = 166!!



  • GL! The only other question I can think to add is with how you responded with Iui, what will your dosage be? Are you in charge of ordering meds or are they? (We used a pharmacy that they sent script , we had to call and order.)

    Good luck and keep up the awesome attitude. I hope the positive thoughts bring you positive results
    Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007
    2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.
    RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds:  BFNs 12/12-2/13
    IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13

    ~My Bitter Bitches Be the Best~

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