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HELP! Potentially scary situation!
This is why I hate online and online dating...
I cancelled a date with a man. We only talked for maybe 4 or 5 days online. I didn't like his FB page and told him I simply changed my mind about the date because I have a lot going on. I never met this guy in person.
Thankfully, he defriended me on FB but he continues to message me. I stopped responding.
Is it best to continue to ignore/block him OR should I tell him to stop sending me messages first and threaten cop involvement.
He was saying things like I led him on, we love each other, real messed up sh#t!
So, I want to know what is the safest thing to do IF he is dangerous? He keeps REPEATING stay safe, God Bless you.
Re: HELP! Potentially scary situation!
1. I don't know if I should completely ignore him. If that would make him more angry.
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2. My intention was not to lead you on. Just send ONE more email and say I simply cancelled our date. I would like for you to stop sending me messages now. Bless you and you take care too.
WOW! Whacko but problem solved. He apparently got mad at me because I didn't respond quickly and blocked ME! lol
Should I be worried for my safety? He is nuts!
"Don't marry a man unless you would be PROUD to have a son exactly like him." ~ Unknown
I wouldn't worry. I had ran into two crazy guys online when I was single. One of them I met and the other one I didn't. Neither one knew where I lived, though they both had my phone number.
With both of them, after I had already told them I was no longer interested multiple times but the phone calls and e-mails didn't stop. I did the "I have already explained I'm not interested, I will not respond any further" e-mail. Both times it pretty much stopped after that. But, as long as you keep replying back even if it is just to say "no, not interested" he will keep trying. Much harder to talk to a wall
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Glad you got out of those situations.
I have friends who gained dangerous stalkers so this is serious to me (GilliC).
I don't have a Twitter account and I do have a life outside of the net. A friend of mine knows him casually. I met him on FB as he was a mutual friend. This man would not stop messaging me. I dated one obsessive person years ago and and he WAS dangerous so yeah made me very nervous.
I didn't think he was dangerous for no apparent reason. He was messaging me about 30 times a day. Very nutty behavior!!!
MUD. Every time you post your story gets more dramatic and you don't answer pertinent questions.
He seemed nice then started emailing me excessively. I did browse his page after he started acting obsessive and did not like what I found. Simple as that.
I agreed to meet him because he seemed normal at first, then he started emailing me excessively then I noticed things I did not like. Our plan was to meet in a couple of weeks, not immediately.
He doesn't have my address but he knows my name and can Google it. It not usually difficult to find someone's address.
Sounds awful and scary. Will be keeping you in mind. Hope this is resolved with minimal scare for you. Take care.
Thanks everyone! He blocked me a few days ago. I have not heard from him. I do have a house alarm and other things too. Hope he is just a little off but harmless.
Oh and I cancelled our date because I didn't like how he was sounding online (regardless that we have a mutual friend on FB). A friend of mine said he sounds like he has schizophrenia. She might be right.
Thanks again everyone!
I'm a good person but tend to attract weirdos. I know some women who are total bi#ches and have awesome men in their lives. Maybe I need to act tough in order to find someone nice but I don't want to change who I am just to have a man in my life. That would be pointless!!
Question is why are you so obsessed with saying rude things on my thread? One thing about this site is there is almost always a snarky person responding. Why do I have a feeling you have a cheesy fake tan and fake claw nails.