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basic Advice for a newbie
Hey MM people,
I’m just curious as to the percentage of income folks are allocating to specific savings goals each pay.
A bit of background - I am 28 and my hubby is 29. We have no debt besides our mortgage, own our vehicles outright and each clear about 1600.00 per pay (65k gross each per year). We live in Canada and work for the government so therefore, we have medical coverage and indexed employer pensions for retirement plus we contribute $150.00 each, per pay, to a TFSA that we play on using for retirement.
Besides that, we haven’t been saving nearly as much as we should be. We are comfortale paying all of our bills, taking nice vacations, going out for dinners etc. but we know we need to start being more conservative with our money as we would like to start a family very soon. I want to improve our spending/saving habits and get ourselves in the best possible financial shape over the next few months before going off of BC. Currently, between the 2 of us, we have 6k in an emergency fund.
Basically, my questions is this – do you have set amounts deducted from each pay to supplement retirement, long-term savings, short-term savings? Other savings accounts? If so, which percentage do you allocate to each? Thank you so much!!!
Re: basic Advice for a newbie
The rule of thumb is to put 15% of your gross income toward retirement first. Also to have 6 months of expenses in your emergency fund.
We now are doing Dave Ramsey's plan to get debt free, but before that we put % of our income into various accounts. 5% into an account for travel, 10% into an account for large home repairs (new siding and roof in 10 years), and 10% for random saving (this never had a purpose, but was money set aside whenever we wanted something larger).
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Thanks guys so much. I feel comfortable with retirement since as i mentioned we both have indexed pensions and are contributing on top of that. As it stands now, we have more than 30k in those accounts but obvioulsy that money cant be touched until retirement and we dont even have access to it until that time comes.
We purchased our home 5 years ago so we are comfortable with our mortgage costs and household bills etc... so its really just crunch time to cut back on the "fun" money and start saving!!!! I'm going to work very hard to cut my spending even if that means saying no to friends more often and not being as social as we typically are. Today was pay day so im going to use this next 2 week period to gauge what we could reasonably put away.
We have $16,200 in student loan debt we are paying off right now. That costs us $218 a month.
We are trying to save up $10,000 into a 6 month living expenses fund right now and we put a varying amount in every month somewhere between $1,750-$2,250. We need to save $4,750 more. This works out to be about 65%-75% of our income.
We contribute NOTHING to retirement which is terrible! When H gets his raise in July we will be doing 5% with a 5% match for a 401k. Also we will start saving an addition 5% each month to put into a Roth IRA each year. This will put us at an overall 15%. We plan to up this every year with the raise H will get by 1% until we hit a solid 20%.
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H and I contribute 6-7% to our 401K's and have started increasing that every year and we are both 31. We have some catching up to do. We also have a house DP which has $18,000 in it and plan on moving in about 2 years. Our savings account has about $8500 right now but H just started school so we took from that. Our goal is to always have $20,000 in there so we are catching up on that as well. We have no debt except for the mortgage and 1 car lease (3yrs).
Everytime we get paid every 2 weeks, we pay our bills, take out spending money and whatever is left we divide between the house and savings account. The amount we save each paycheck varies based on the bills or other extras that we have. We just do what we can. We are in no hurry so we don't stress it.
Thanks girl! I took a hard look at our spending habits this week and holy smokes we are being very wasteful when it comes to eating out. I am going to try and curb that bad habit. Obviously, once in awhile we will continue to enjoy a nice meal out but I want us to look at it more like a treat than an every day occurrence. I have a meeting with our financial advisor next week and plan on making some changes like increasing our contributions to TFSAs and RRSPs as well as increasing our money in the emergency fund.
I dont want to put on TTC longer than we need to and getting a better handle on our finances is our final step. Thanks agian for all of the advice. I am so glad taht I found this forum.
The only debt we currently have is our mortgage (SL paid off in January 2013, both cars have been paid off since 2011). We refinanced to a 15 year mortgage with 4.0% interest in 2010 (Original loan was 30 years, 5.375%).
I contribute 9% to my 401K and get 1.5% match from my employer. DH is a state employee so he will get a state pension and contributes 4% of his income to a 403b (Me- 32, DH- 31).
We also have 2 girls in day care full time. This is estimated to cost us $19,500 for 2014. Right now, I put $5,000 into a dependent care FSA account (max allowed per family) in order to get a little bit of a tax break, but this is by far our largest expense for the next 2 years.
Once the girls are out of day care, I'll up my 401K contribution to 15%, DH will probably change his to 10%. We'll also start 529 plans for the girls- the goal is $250/paycheck for each of them. I would like to have $100,000 in there for each of them for college.
We have 14 months of expenses saved and we're hoping to be at 18 months saved by the end of 2014. It's mostly because I'm over cautious now that we have 2 children- if something happened to one or both of our jobs, I want their lives to remain as normal as possible.
To keep track of everything, we have an excel spreadsheet set up. One tab handles day to day transactions in our checking accounts/credit cards (that are paid off in full each month), and the other tab has a monthly view of the calendar year. It's nice to see what % of our take home pay goes to what and what we can do to cut back on certain expenses.
H and I make about 87,000 combined
NEVER spend more than you take in and ALWAYS save from every paycheck.
Make sure you have at minimum 6 month's of expenses in an emergency fund.
Have a separate savings for future vehicle purchases so you do not need to finance.
Clothing - limit your wardrobe and pre plan purchases. Everything should be able to be worn with severral other items. (I do black, red and tan - everything mixes and matches - buy quality on sale or clearance -- and don't forget to check consignment shops as there are some great finds there). Only shop when you are looking for something specific - stay out of the stores "just looking" as you will come home with something because it was cute, on sale etc that is not really needed.
Beauty - basic haircut- no color, highlights, massages. You do not need a ton of makeup, skin creams etc.Find the few you like and stick with them only.
Exercise and eat healthy - it is an investment in yourself (and you look and feel better too!)
Pay off any credit card usage monthly - IN FULL EVERY MONTH. If you cannot do that - then the purchase must wait.
Don't try to keep up with the latest - do it your own way.
Cutting back on entertainment and socializing - consider inviting friends to your home for a pot luck (and games/movie/talk). Host provicdes main dish, other bring sides and deserts. Much less costly than going out. (Your friends may appreciate the savings as well). Keep it simple and others may return the invitations in kind.
Set your priorities and then look to see if your money is reflecting them.