Told my H I'm pregnant, he doesnt seem to care much...

cloudymeatballs

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zzbb

It was my husband who really made the final green light when we decided to start trying...I was a little disappointed with his reaction when untold him. It still bothers me if I think about it but he showed me in other ways that he was excited as time went by. Like others said it became more real later.

moonprincessd

I think that's actually normal, I mean you haven't gone to a doctor. He probably doesn't want to get excited over something that might or might not exist. I would've gone to the doctor first and then show your husband the paper if you wanted him to get excited. 

cloudymeatballs12

I will have to remember to do that next time, since with this one it was a "chemical pregnancy". So basically I had an early miscarriage.

SmrBrd2012

That's awful!! So sorry

cloudymeatballs12

SmrBrd2012 said:

That's awful!! So sorry

Thank you. I know, we were so excited. It broke my heart . I mean, crazy after only knowing a few days... FX we have good news soon...

Lilyrose4242

I'm so sorry! Sending hugs your way!

rlyttle

So sorry!! I've had two early MCs are they are no fun!! Just don't take it the wrong way when your DH doesn't get excited when you get pregnant again. He will be guarding his feelings, as will you. Good luck and I hope you get a baby soon!! Xoxo

cloudymeatballs12

rlyttle said:

So sorry!! I've had two early MCs are they are no fun!! Just don't take it the wrong way when your DH doesn't get excited when you get pregnant again. He will be guarding his feelings, as will you. Good luck and I hope you get a baby soon!! Xoxo

It has sucked! And I know that is exactly what he was doing here. I understand that now, and just was a lil butthurt before. We decided to wait to test for next time, but I also would like to know if I am having problems perhaps as well. And being anxious about it doesn't help. I want to take a test so bad, just to see. I mean, I have been having cramps and been exhausted but I am going to wait. Torture... Thank you so much and I sure hope so too.... xo

Disneygeek77

I am so sorry about your MC.  That must have been so difficult.  I had a miscarriage last April and it was harder than I thought it would be.  

cloudymeatballs12

Disneygeek77 said:

I am so sorry about your MC.  That must have been so difficult.  I had a miscarriage last April and it was harder than I thought it would be.  

Really though, it has been a lot harder. Just knowing for a few days and I'm still upset about it. I just heard one of my friends is pregnant, and I'm so happy for her, but it made me sad too. I was all sad and bummed all day yesterday and then heard someone talking about baby names and such... Just never thought it would hurt so bad...

Disneygeek77

It will hurt, for a while, then things will get better.  Then by the time of your due date, you will be sad again thinking of what could have been.

I worked with a girl who was due two weeks before I was and seeing her growing belly and then the baby was a little hard.  Not anything to make me cry, just enough to make me a little sad.

Leftie22

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Trying to conceive (and pregnancy) are so much more stressful and emotional than our society seems to think. I'm wishing you the best, and hope you have a positive pregnancy test again soon.

osarto

CONGRATS!!!